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Be Picture Perfect Part 2 of 3

Welcome to Part 2 of the Be Picture Perfect series (check out part 1 here.) Peter Hurley gives another incredible tip for looking photogenic on camera –the squinch. (For those wanting extra credit, you can also check out the full video.) Squinching is different from squinting. It’s lowering your upper eyelid just a bit and […]

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10 Tips to Be Confident

Easy Tips To Feel More Confident

The feeling of confidence doesn’t have to take a long time to build. It’s changing a few habits here and there that alter your mood, so you feel more confident. Check out these tips below and see which work for you.1. It’s All About the PostureThe way you feel about yourself is directly related to your […]

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Compelling Conversations

The Secret To Constantly Compelling Conversations Every Time

For years and years I dreaded starting up conversations with new people. Sometimes things would be going really well. Sometimes the conversation would fall flat on it’s face. It seemed like there was no standard way to guarantee a conversation would go well. Then, I was recommended Conversationally Speaking by Alan Garner. The easy to […]

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Why Ghosting Happens And How to Stop It from Happening to You

Recently, a female friend of mine asked me about my thoughts on ghosting. This is a fun topic that seems to be relatively new. Ghosting is the act of a person you are dating disappearing, almost like a ghost might. If you would like a good laugh and have about 3 minutes, Garfunkel and Oates […]

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8 Things You Need To Check Before The First Date

It’s really common for guys to have a date planned and ready to go (by following my First Date Formula), and hours before the date they will start getting a little anxious that everything is ready to go and will call me asking for last minute tips. At last, I’ve compiled a list of things […]

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Why You Should Embrace Being Single for a Time

Oftentimes when I tell somebody that I am a dating consultant, the main question people ask me is how many of my clients are in serious relationships. The answer is: “Some do and some don’t. It depends what they want.” I must admit that for a while I was confused by the question because my goal […]

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The Difference Between Emotional And Logical Conversations

When dealing with people, remember you are not dealing with creatures of logic, but creatures of emotion. -Dale Carnegie Dale Carnegie, author of How to Win Friends and Influence People–one of the most popular books on communication ever written–hits the nail on the head. And this is a lesson that took a super left-brained person like […]

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Grooming and Styling Tips You Have To Know

I have a confession to make: This post is copied directly from the member’s section of my course Tinder Academy.  I included it here because whether you join my course or not, I believe that having a small amount of style is one of the biggest things you can do to up your odds with […]

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Verbal Hacks to Get More of What You Want that Actually Work

Before we begin discussing these powerful persuasion techniques, I’d like to give a short disclaimer: Use these tips for good. While seemingly simple, the techniques can be very powerful. I am sharing these with you because they have dramatically improved my abilities to emote, keep conversations going, and even help people get “unstuck” when they […]

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The Surefire Formula For A Successful First Date

There’s a right way and a wrong way to have a first date. The right way sets you up for success with whichever form of relationship you want to have with a girl –whether monogamous and long-term or casual and short-term. Sexual chemistry alone will not allow a strong bond and relationship to develop between […]

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