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How Long to Stay Single?

Kind of a weird question and one I don’t think guys (or women) ponder enough…I just finished up the book Algorithms to Life By, by Brian Christian and Tom Griffiths.In the book, these two UC Berkeley professors (Go Bears!) argue that computer algorithms can decide the optimal amount of time a man should spend looking […]

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The Quickest and Easiest Way to Get Top Quality Profile Pics

It’s far easier to show you how to take the photos than to write it all out. Have your camera out while you watch and practice honing your photo taking/posing skills in this video lesson.Takeaways:Background – Is it picture worthy?Take lots of pics – You have a digital camera! Take a bunch of pics and […]

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More Matches in Less Time by Hacking Tinder’s Settings

Tinder is always changing up it’s settings. Usually it’s adding new ones. Occasionally, it’s taking some away. Check out this guide for which setting matter, which settings don’t, and what to do with the ones that matter…

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6 Tinder opens that work 85% of the time

The generic message on Tinder is now a thing of the past. Now, to do well, you need to personalize! That being said, you don’t need to personalize all too much… What matters most is that you point out something that you notice from the girl’s profile description and then ask a follow up question […]

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Become More Funny in 5 Minutes or Less

This is the easiest hack I’ve ever discovered to put people in a good mood and develop a sense of humor that their peers will appreciate. I discovered this hack one day when I was bored and on Instagram. Instagram has a section that recommends accounts you might like, and it had a few recommendations […]

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4 Questions that Help You Hook Up …if that’s your thing

Disclaimer: This article is about hooking up. Casual sex can put you at higher risk for STDs and STIs. You can minimize the risks by using condoms. That being said, casual sex can be very fun for you and who you are with, and a dating blog wouldn’t be complete without touching on the subject. […]

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The Simple Secret to Beginning Compelling Conversations

There’s nothing that amuses me more than hearing someone give the advice that you can begin a conversation by saying anything… While technically true (and far better than not starting a conversation at all as the alternative), there are good ways and bad ways to start conversations… In the past 5 years, I have started conversations […]

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How To Get Your Sexy Back Part 2 of 2

In Part 1 of this series (check it out here), I spoke about the mindset that has gotten me and a few friends in the best shape of our lives. In this section I’m going to give you my top diet suggestions for a better look and life as well as the resources you need […]

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How To Get Your Sexy Back Part 1 of 2

In the past, I did not take my diet seriously AT ALL. I choose to believe the myth some in the dating community choose to promote which is that looks don’t matter primarily because it seemed a lot more convenient than how complicated getting in shape seemed at the time. Then I had a wake up call… […]

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Be Picture Perfect Part 3 of 3

Welcome to part 3 of Be Picture Perfect. If you haven’t seen parts 1 and 2 yet, you can see Part 1 here and Part 2 here. The quickest way to look slimmer in photos is doing a technique Peter Hurley calls “Holding the Sub.” One thing to note is that most people put their hands […]

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